Inside Shows: Going To The Rachael Ray Show!

So my girls and I got tickets to go to the Rachael Ray show and we weren't expecting what was yet to come. Usually, when we go to a show, we always expect to see audience seats. This was not the case for Rachael Ray. In fact, we happened to get tickets for the best show of the year, something we wouldn't have known until arrival. This episode will not be filmed until after New Year's because it's Rachael Ray's top 10 recipes of the year that fans have chosen. It was amazing. We all got 3 or 4 different dished of food, appetizers, deserts, and drinks. They removed all of the audience seats and replaced them with table and chairs. The set was very busy off camera because there were about 20 different waiters/waitresses clearing our tables and replacing new items onto them.

Rachael Ray herself? Amazing. While the camera was off, she would walk around and interact with us, as well as make jokes. She stayed in the audience the whole time actually. What was very noticeable, and admirable, is that she's very hands-on with her own TV show. I've been to shows where everybody in the world does the work for the host besides the host himself/herself. Rachael Ray is the exact opposite. You can tell she has a strong impact around those who work with her.

Wonderful show. The tickets are free, just like any other TV show. However, the wait is long. I had to wait about 3 months for these. Your best bet is to apply for them now. Great show.

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Inside Human Rights: The Progress Of The Feminist Movement

During one of my Theories of Crime classes at school, we were reviewing a section of a chapter about women and violence. I found the information that I read to be very interesting, and I'm here to share and also elaborate on my own views of this particular type of anomie.   

Rebellion occuring in women is now at an all-time high, and it is only getting higher. Although I am against violence, this post is not to bash the women that are committing crimes, but to take the time to investigate and find out why. The word "tomboy" is nothing new to us when referring to a boyish-type female. It can be the way a girl dresses, or the way she presents her attitude. Is this type of dressing or attitude some sort of vengeance? People often say that African-Americans started using the word nigga in order to retaliate and to take back the word themselves. It's evident that it worked. Is this same type of temerity and rebellion occurring with women? Are we becoming more of aggressors to prove ourselves? Let's practice a method from my favorite philosopher, Socrates. The Socratic method, readers. It is my favorite method of finding answers and coming to conclusions, and it challenges your thoughts while answering them. Ask more questions, receive more answers. Apart from math and science, there is never one right answer, so let's take the progression of the feminist movement into deeper thought.

The Socratic method is a form of inquiry and debate between individuals with opposing viewpoints based on asking and answering questions to stimulate critical thinking and to illuminate ideas. It is a dialectical method, often involving an oppositional discussion in which the defense of one point of view is pitted against the defense of another; one participant may lead another to contradict him in some way, strengthening the inquirer's own point.

The fight to prove ourselves just as capable as men has been reflected from our every day duties with careers, right down to our participation in violence. Studies show that as the years go by, violence becomes more increasingly popular with females. The slope in this study has never altered and has always stayed consistent, in other words, more and more women are playing a part in violent crimes. Now, I am definitely not saying that women are committing crimes to prove that they are just as bad as men that are more expected to commit a crime. Rather, I am pointing out the fact that women -- are committing more and more crimes. Why? I believe that this observation in itself is showing the changes in time. Women are coming out of their shell, standing up for what they believe is right (or wrong). They are not to afraid to put up a fight and are becoming less bravado, and more brave, no? Brassiere? What brassiere? Fling the brassiere! DEATH TO THE BRASSIERE.

Feminism is the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes. The women that seek better, and struggle to prove ourselves just as apt as men are called feminists. We, as women, strive to become better than what the law or books (or sometimes men) say we are. Herein lies the struggle. What makes us so different from men? Our vaginas? Our breasts? Childbirth? Anything else? Nope. Statistics show that we are just as intellectually capable as men, and given the fact that we hold another human being in our own bodies for nine months, deal with sickness that comes with it, and still summon up the energy to push a baby out, I'd like to be the brave one to say we are by far more physically capable than a man. There is no difference between the two genders besides body parts & childbirth, and maybe some scientific genes if you'd like to get technical. Other than that, what's the gender inequality for? 

Women have been showing their concerns in protests and in fustian movements for years. These types of movements were obviously necessary because today we see changes have come, yet still there is inequality within the government when it comes to both sexes. Studies show that females, by law, get paid less than their male counterparts even if they hold the same position at the same job. Does this make any sense? I do not want to come off as one of those people that are an extreme pro-women activist, because I'm really more about equality. However, it is situations like these that cause women like me to go ten times harder in working and using my voice. This may come off as me being war-like, but it's me fighting to overcome a struggle that has existed since -- ever.

Together as women, I believe we are the most powerful. We are beautiful. We are smart. We show that we can maintain being a housewife, a caretaker, a lover, a child bearer, a mother, a student, and a boss, endless personalities, if you will, all at once; characteristics that weren't even expected of us centuries ago. In the words of Karrine Steffans, "By nature, women have a very high threshold for pain. We have to. We are the bearers of children, and that event alone can be excruciating beyond description. This is why we can take on so much, from having a career, to running a household, carrying children in our bodies for nearly a year, bearing and raising those children, and caring for our men in all the ways that they require. It's a lot." Susan B. Anthony (a Massachusetts native herself), amongst other prominent women activists, took the initiative to stand up for women's rights in times where slavery was barely abolished, Jews were forming a plethora of hegiras, and African-Americans were being hung and drained like a wet garment on a clothesline. Like so many of these suffering peoples, women showing violence is a sign of the time that times are changing for women. When will we be legally equal to our men? I believe, sooner than later. Although I do not condone violence, I am for any other way of overcoming our struggle to being equal with our fellow men. We have been proving ourselves over and over again, especially as of recent centuries, that we are capable of doing what men do. We raise our standards as the time goes by and we demand respect more and more. Let's continue this movement. Women of all color, sizes, shapes, backgrounds, unite. We are one.

Sources:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_method

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Inside Human Rights: Where Your Standards Should Be No Matter What Type Of Woman You Are

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Inside Adventures: Behind The Scenes Photo Shoot

What a fantastic day this was. I had another shoot with one of New York City's best Ryle "Slinky" Watson. Ashley Goldson was the make-up artist and Nancy Gonsalves was the stylist, both fantastic at what they do. It's always fun shooting with Slinky because the set is live. Video is below.

                                

After the shoot, we decided to have a celebratory dinner and drinks. If you all read my previous posts, you'd know Sugarcane is my favoriiiiite West Indian restaurant. Nancy & I took Ashley here for the first time but I'm not sure if we got her addicted as yet.

Sugarcane....

 

Turns out Sugarcane is basically right in front of Jay-Z's new basketball stadium for the Nets!

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Inside Music: What Should Be On A Bad B*tch's Playlist RIGHT NOW And Why

Before we get into my choice of everyday music, know this. 

Let me address the term "bad bitch"... I am one. And I am sure that many of you ladies are that read my blog posts religiously and like them. A bad bitch is not dehumanizing ANYONE so please take that technical bullshit that way ---->>>>>>. A bad bitch can be a female that went to medical school at John Hopkins and graduated at the top of her class, the only thing that separates her from other females (female dogs) is that she bites. She's fierce, focused, and all about her work. She gets shit done and let's no one get in her way of success. She not only has pride about her work ethic but of her physical appearance too. The pulchritude she carries is inexorable, and that's what catches the males' (dogs) attention because she's a living bad-bitch, beauty that can roll with them (since society has cast females as the underdogs). **In my most excruciating down south accent yet** ---> A bad bitch ain't a underdog doe, she a female dog -- on the same level as a male dog except she makes peace signs with her legs (word to Wale). Only difference between the two dogs is what lies in between their legs. Nothing else. Bad bitches unite.

WHO?

WHY?

Rozay. Rozay's music motivates. I don't know WHAT it is but his lyrics along with his beats does something to me when it's time to get money, and good grades. 

Wale. His music is always respective of the female race, but he also makes it quite clear how evil women can become and how he's not the one to be messed with. Real dude. He also represents struggle.

Drake. He relates to every aspect of life in his music. From relationships to overcoming struggles, to blowing money, Drizzy is the artist I can relate to the most in the music industry.

Beyonce. Independence. #1. Takes care of her man. Loves unconditionally. Has her own to fall back on if ever, whenever. Boss. "All up in the kitchen in my heels, dinner time." Need I say more?

Kartel. No matter how vulgar Kartel's music can get, it's real. It's what happens everyday in our lives and he's just the one not afraid to boast it. As I've stated before, I love Vybz Kartel. I have no idea who Adidja Palmer is. That speaks for itself.

Meek Millz. Although he's relatively knew, he has captured my attention and hasn't lost it. It's been a long time since I've liked deep, hardcore rap like this, so Meek Millz is winning. He has an adaptation of Rick Ross's flow, so I love.

Rihanna. The island girl attracts me not because of her music predominantly, but because of her character. She is the perfect example of joie de vivre. She celebrates and possesses a carefree enjoyment of life and this is something that I bombastically proclaim all the time. This is reflected in her music which is where I come in with loving her music, it's because of who she is. I get that I look like her all the time so maybe our similarities go deeper than that, maybe that's why I love her?

Nicki Minaj. Nicki is bad. I don't know how to explain her but she is an archetype of our generation and innovation always wins. I am a big fan of lyrics, as you can tell by the aforementioned artists I have selected, and I am also a big fan of hypeness. Nicki has this, as well as talent, struggle, and an island background. She wins.

All of these artists share a lot of similarities, I just didn't want to write a whole paragraph for each. Just because we're females does not mean that we have to listen to Beyonce or Celine Dion all the time. We can be gangsta too. We can drive Maybachs and crunk up Ross' 9 Piece, top down, hair flowing in the wind. Boss. These are my favorite choices of music to listen to because all of them motivate me. I am very ambitious and when listening to these selected artists I feel ready to conquer the world. I aspire to be a boss and deep down I am one, I just haven't had a universal possession to claim yet. The aforementioned are all bosses in their own right. From my list, to yours.

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Inside Shows: The Nutcracker!

How do I explain the performance of The Nutcracker? Classic? Classic.

I've never actually got to sit down and enjoy ballet before. As a younger child, I used to dance many types of dances, but never went into depths with ballet, only being familiar with the prerequisites. If only I knew what I had been missing...I wish someone could have informed me. My girls & I: Nancy, Barbie, and Dai, enjoyed a fine Wednesday night at Lincoln Center watching the most beautiful show I have ever seen. The whole was done in silence, since it's ballet, and that added the profound beauty to the whole performance. This is a truly a must-watch show. It's one of those events you must put in your bucket list. This class is a mere matrix of the finer things in life. Pulchritude.

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Inside Adventures: Madame Tussauds Wax Museum (NYC)!

Inside Adventures: Radio City Christmas Spectacular W/ The Rockettes!

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Inside Adventures: Going To "Late Night With Jimmy Fallon!"

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Inside Shows: The 2011 Rockefeller Christmas Tree Lighting

It was a beautiful Wednesday night in New York City when my sister, Boryana, and I went out to go see the iconic Christmas Tree Lighting at Rockefeller Center. This has always been an event I watched on TV while growing up in Boston, so it has always been a dream of mine to see it in person. Seeing that I have much experience with attending largely populated NYC events, I was already prepared for the masses of crowds I was going to face once getting off of the F train at Rockefeller. Police were already miserable. Justin Bieber fans were at an abundance. Commuters were annoyed. In the depth of it all though, Bory & I were just determined to get as close to the tree as possble, and we did. :)

Merry Christmas

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